A Little Less Conversation
By: Adara Zfan Paquito
Issue 12 Spring 2021
Language is one of several traits that distinguishes man from other animals. Being a man implies that one is capable of speaking and interacting. Conversing is an expression of the truth that is essential in many ways. Conversely, it can be a tool of expression for ideas, emotions, and experience. It lessens pain, enhances joy, and elevates exaltation, and regaining communication can be enjoyable. Speaking is one of the noblest means of preserving and increasing knowledge, as it reveals man's inner being: thoughts, emotions, and intentions. A talk reveals a man's heart and mind. Conversations are also about participation, cooperation, and interaction. Conversations are the best means of communication and expression, as well as the oldest and richest. Many of the most cherished religious and spiritual works were originally written orally as part of conversations or dialogues.
Conversations are a significant part of success, social interaction, business, education, and learning. Conversations are extremely varied and can include a talk, lecture, and skepticism. A speech or a lecture may be seen as an extension of a conversation, which is normally restricted to two to three persons, while a speech or a lecture may attract many people. “I don’t think there's no such thing as ‘easy’. Because sometimes what leads to people not being able to communicate with someone is because of the subconscious thought. We, humans, cannot help but to unconsciously think of the negative ways, for example. A person may be scared to talk to someone because of what they may think of them. Or it could be about how they talk with them and the like,” 19-year-old Akame Fujikawa acknowledged. Further, a speech is a one-way street, while a conversation implies intimacy, warmth, frankness, participation, and politeness. A good and enjoyable conversation involves both heart and mind in an intimate way. “I think the best types of conversations to have with someone is where you are both passionate about the topic you are talking about. What good would it do if one person doesn’t understand or simply cannot relate with the topic,” Akame Fujikawa revealed.
The real art of conversation is the art of politeness, sweetness, intelligence, enjoyment and closeness. It is essential to making friends, increasing followings, and achieving success. Conversation can be trained and developed by practice, patience, and perseverance. “I once had a conversation with someone I met at work. I remember exactly how the conversation went and we both instantly clicked. That was about 7 years ago and we’re still keeping in touch,” Akame Fujikawa added. One who acquires this art is fully rewarded, for that person is accepted wherever they go. People like his company and that person can become one of the most respected and trustworthy people. A good conversation is always enjoyable, polite, interesting, natural, spontaneous, rhythmic and comfortable.
A good communicator, whoever can communicate in a way that is convincing to the other, leaves a lasting impression. To have this art, one must be confident. “When they ask me if I’m mad or angry at them. I think we all know the struggle of people having that ‘resting b’ face. The thing is, I’m not even mad at them but I just struggle with my eyesight since I hate wearing contacts and sometimes glasses,” 18-year-old Rui Sato commented. Having self-confidence is a sign of persuasiveness, and acceptance. Success in conversation occurs through confidence. A person can attain self-confidence by reading as much as possible, acquiring knowledge and practicing talking about the subject with friends, neighbors, parents and groups of people around. “Phone calls are great but face-to-face conversations are better because you get to see their body language whereas in a phone, you can’t really feel the same. You don’t know if they’re genuine or not,” Rui Sato responded.
People can be a great resource for developing this skill. Engage with shoemakers, vegetable sellers, fellow travelers on trains and buses, and have short conversations with strangers. Exchange ideas, concepts, views and experiences with as many people as possible.”Being blunt is okay especially during those times where someone is annoyingly persuasive. But in general, I think that depends too. Sometimes people don’t realize it therefore you shouldn’t mention it,” Rui Sato added.This will empower, build confidence, and provide experience. Develop a connection with others and then make them feel appreciated and important through polite, sincere and warm talk. Attend lectures given by well-known speakers. It will give a lot of knowledge, experience, and confidence. Always be optimistic and think the best in planning talks. Have a positive attitude towards sharing life with others and be proud of accomplishments. “I like to be open whenever I talk to older people. They have more experience than I do, therefore I should listen to them. Like I said earlier, who knows their experiences could be helpful in the future,” 25-year-old Kaminari Cho revealed. Getting good at conversation is a continuous and ongoing process. As a person converses with different people, the more that person can acquire knowledge, skills and confidence. For life and career, exchange of ideas, joys, fears, emotions, opinions and concepts will prove beneficial. “I also would love to have a conversation with John Lennon. His past experiences melted my heart as I have a broken family and I wanted to talk to him on how he felt the whole time as a kid,” Kaminari Cho commented.
The mere act of conversing with someone for a brief period can enhance knowledge and abilities of language, expression, and communication. Take advantage of the opportunity to converse with various kinds of people whenever it comes up. Moreover, it can create opportunities to talk and converse. Consider their educational levels, knowledge, social status, hobbies, problems, and other particulars. “The most difficult conversation I had with someone was probably with a past childhood crush. I had a crush on them for basically my whole life. Then 2018 came where she got engaged to his then boyfriend now fiancée. It did hurt at some point because I finally took the courage to confess to her, but I guess it was too late. But on the bright side we’re great friends until now,” Kaminari Cho acknowledged.
Be self-effacing and respectful. Do not pretend that you are more knowledgeable than someone else. Always strive to fit your conversation with whoever you are speaking with. Be interested and fascinating. Never offend the person by creating an uncomfortable relationship. Your talk should carry the full force of your personality. It should be warm, polite, informal and spontaneous. Nothing should be half-hearted, or half baked. Do not dictate terms. Be friendly, courteous,and liberal.
Conversations are a significant part of success, social interaction, business, education, and learning. Conversations are extremely varied and can include a talk, lecture, and skepticism. A speech or a lecture may be seen as an extension of a conversation, which is normally restricted to two to three persons, while a speech or a lecture may attract many people. “I don’t think there's no such thing as ‘easy’. Because sometimes what leads to people not being able to communicate with someone is because of the subconscious thought. We, humans, cannot help but to unconsciously think of the negative ways, for example. A person may be scared to talk to someone because of what they may think of them. Or it could be about how they talk with them and the like,” 19-year-old Akame Fujikawa acknowledged. Further, a speech is a one-way street, while a conversation implies intimacy, warmth, frankness, participation, and politeness. A good and enjoyable conversation involves both heart and mind in an intimate way. “I think the best types of conversations to have with someone is where you are both passionate about the topic you are talking about. What good would it do if one person doesn’t understand or simply cannot relate with the topic,” Akame Fujikawa revealed.
The real art of conversation is the art of politeness, sweetness, intelligence, enjoyment and closeness. It is essential to making friends, increasing followings, and achieving success. Conversation can be trained and developed by practice, patience, and perseverance. “I once had a conversation with someone I met at work. I remember exactly how the conversation went and we both instantly clicked. That was about 7 years ago and we’re still keeping in touch,” Akame Fujikawa added. One who acquires this art is fully rewarded, for that person is accepted wherever they go. People like his company and that person can become one of the most respected and trustworthy people. A good conversation is always enjoyable, polite, interesting, natural, spontaneous, rhythmic and comfortable.
A good communicator, whoever can communicate in a way that is convincing to the other, leaves a lasting impression. To have this art, one must be confident. “When they ask me if I’m mad or angry at them. I think we all know the struggle of people having that ‘resting b’ face. The thing is, I’m not even mad at them but I just struggle with my eyesight since I hate wearing contacts and sometimes glasses,” 18-year-old Rui Sato commented. Having self-confidence is a sign of persuasiveness, and acceptance. Success in conversation occurs through confidence. A person can attain self-confidence by reading as much as possible, acquiring knowledge and practicing talking about the subject with friends, neighbors, parents and groups of people around. “Phone calls are great but face-to-face conversations are better because you get to see their body language whereas in a phone, you can’t really feel the same. You don’t know if they’re genuine or not,” Rui Sato responded.
People can be a great resource for developing this skill. Engage with shoemakers, vegetable sellers, fellow travelers on trains and buses, and have short conversations with strangers. Exchange ideas, concepts, views and experiences with as many people as possible.”Being blunt is okay especially during those times where someone is annoyingly persuasive. But in general, I think that depends too. Sometimes people don’t realize it therefore you shouldn’t mention it,” Rui Sato added.This will empower, build confidence, and provide experience. Develop a connection with others and then make them feel appreciated and important through polite, sincere and warm talk. Attend lectures given by well-known speakers. It will give a lot of knowledge, experience, and confidence. Always be optimistic and think the best in planning talks. Have a positive attitude towards sharing life with others and be proud of accomplishments. “I like to be open whenever I talk to older people. They have more experience than I do, therefore I should listen to them. Like I said earlier, who knows their experiences could be helpful in the future,” 25-year-old Kaminari Cho revealed. Getting good at conversation is a continuous and ongoing process. As a person converses with different people, the more that person can acquire knowledge, skills and confidence. For life and career, exchange of ideas, joys, fears, emotions, opinions and concepts will prove beneficial. “I also would love to have a conversation with John Lennon. His past experiences melted my heart as I have a broken family and I wanted to talk to him on how he felt the whole time as a kid,” Kaminari Cho commented.
The mere act of conversing with someone for a brief period can enhance knowledge and abilities of language, expression, and communication. Take advantage of the opportunity to converse with various kinds of people whenever it comes up. Moreover, it can create opportunities to talk and converse. Consider their educational levels, knowledge, social status, hobbies, problems, and other particulars. “The most difficult conversation I had with someone was probably with a past childhood crush. I had a crush on them for basically my whole life. Then 2018 came where she got engaged to his then boyfriend now fiancée. It did hurt at some point because I finally took the courage to confess to her, but I guess it was too late. But on the bright side we’re great friends until now,” Kaminari Cho acknowledged.
Be self-effacing and respectful. Do not pretend that you are more knowledgeable than someone else. Always strive to fit your conversation with whoever you are speaking with. Be interested and fascinating. Never offend the person by creating an uncomfortable relationship. Your talk should carry the full force of your personality. It should be warm, polite, informal and spontaneous. Nothing should be half-hearted, or half baked. Do not dictate terms. Be friendly, courteous,and liberal.
